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To
Celebrate Women of Courage and Vision
By Woody Henderson
The theme
for National Women's History Month, March 2001 is "Celebrating
Women of Courage and Vision," so when I was asked to write
an article celebrating black women, I thought to myself,
this would be easy. There is so much to celebrate in black
women from Harriet Tubman to Susan Taylor. Black women
have contribute and done so much to raise and liberate
our people.
I asked myself,
where should I begin? Of course, I'll begin in churches,
You only have to walk through the sanctuary of one of
the many churches across this country to understand why
I'd begin there. Take a church such as Cannan Baptist
Church on 116 street in Harlem, USA where the Rev. Dr.
Wyatt Tee Walker is senior pastor. There, on any given
Sunday you can't help but notice an abundance of women,
who come from every corner of our community, from professors
of great universities to clerks in local super markets,
from housewives to lawyers and officers of major corporations,
to find women worthy of being celebrated. They volunteer
in homeless shelters, clothing drives, senior citizen
homes, and soup kitchens, they even find time to visit
inmates in prisons and the sick and shut-in while all
working in concert, lifting up the spirit of the Lord
God almighty.
Maybe I should
write about the pastor's wife, Ms Ann Walker, and tell
of all she has endured in raising a family, while standing
beside and behind Rev. Walker as he helped to shape the
civil rights movement and keep the light on apartheid
until Mandela walked to freedom. I wondered how many times
in the privacy of his own mind had he sung "you are the
wind beneath my wings," when thinking of "his Bride" as
he so often affectionately calls her. Or I could write
about Deaconess Cooper the wife of the chairman emeritus
of the official board of that great church and speak of
the love and hard work she has shown, not only to Deacon
Cooper and the church family, but also to the greater
community as a whole.
I think about
Kathy Gibson who sacrificed her own dreams and took on
the role of kinship parent, raising her little ones as
if she had given birth to them. Yet, she found the time
and where with all to form the "Grandparents Advocacy
Project Inc.," while always presenting herself as the
African Queen she truly is. Or I could write about Grammy,
and multi award winner, Micki Grant, who wrote such plays
as "Your Arms Too Short To Box With God" and "Don't Bother
Me I Can't Cope."
I could tell
of her humbleness and her endless and inspiring contributions
to the world of theater and song.. Then I thought about
all the unsung-heroines, women and mothers that bring
their children to rehearsals on Saturdays and church on
Sundays. Surely, mother's raising children is reason enough
to celebrate women; but women have always done that without
any fanfare. I think of my own mother, who raised eight
children on sixty-one dollars a week and we never went
hungry.
Women contribute
so much to society on so many different levels from the
time we enter this world until the time we go out. So
many great women came to my mind that I wanted to write
about and celebrate, some know and others unknown.
Then, I thought
about black men. I
began to wonder why do we on a whole show so little respect
for black women, if not directly indirectly by supporting
music or associating with others who use derogatory words
and phrases when referring to women both individually
and collectively. How can we except this after all they've
endured just to keep bread on the table or put shoes on
a child's feet, but that's a subject for another day?
I finally
came to the conclusion that this assignment is not so
easy after all. You could write forever and never write
or say enough to honor or celebrate women; all you can
really do is thank God for them and try and show them
the respect they truly deserve.
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